The Fine Line Between Acknowledging Difficulty and Fueling Excuses
The Fine Line Between Acknowledging Difficulty and Fueling Excuses Growing up, my dad had a knack for helping me unpack situations—from soccer games to major life events. While it could be frustrating at times, I credit him with teaching me the invaluable skill of self-reflection. He encouraged me to recognize my limitations and develop strategies to overcome obstacles, ensuring I was prepared when similar challenges arose. My dad didn’t mince words. Whether he was commenting on how I looked in a dress for a semi-formal or weighing in on a major life decision, his honesty was always direct. As a child, I didn’t fully appreciate or understand the power of his straightforwardness. However, I always knew I could trust what he was saying, no matter how tough it was to hear. One day, in a moment of frustration, I blurted out, “It’s not my fault—I have ADHD!” My dad’s response was clear and direct: “Some people have cancer, some peo